Immediate Need
We're here to help, now.
You don't need to know what to do next. Choose the way to start that feels right for you, and we'll take it one step at a time.
You don't have to do this alone
Whether you've just lost someone or time is growing short, we'll help you plan the service, find a place, and tell the people who matter, one gentle step at a time.
Where are you right now?
- Private and secure all the way
- Pick up where you left off
- No computer skills required
Here's what we can help with
Plan the service
Shape a service that reflects who they were, including the music.
Find a funeral home or location
Choose a place that feels right and keep the details together.
Tell the people who matter
Let family and friends know, all in one place.
Create a memorial page
A place to share photos, stories, and memories.
Write their obituary
Put their story into words, with help.
Understand the costs
Plan a budget so there are fewer surprises.
And more, along the way
Suggestions for your faith or tradition
Get ideas based on your religion and customs, so the service feels right.
Help choosing what you'll need
Our AI guide helps you pick clothing and the other items for the funeral.
Ideas for non-traditional services
Explore ways to celebrate their life that go beyond the usual format.
Simple steps, at your own pace
You don't need to know what to do next. We'll guide you through each decision, and you can stop and come back anytime.
How it works
Answer a few gentle questions
We'll ask what we need to know, one step at a time, so nothing gets missed.
Choose what to take care of first
See everything in one place and start wherever feels right, now or later.
Get help with the arrangements
We'll help you choose a funeral home and other providers, and handle the ordering with you.
Families who trusted us
“I’m grateful to BlueButterfly because my mom died and I had no idea where to start. BlueButterfly made the process much easier.”
“I hope I don’t need to use this site again, but if I ever have another death of a loved one, I’ll do the planning with BlueButterfly again. It was very helpful.”
“I was overwhelmed when my spouse passed. This helped me get organized and get a clear picture of what I needed to do.”
Simple, transparent pricing
Start free, and add more whenever you're ready.
START YOUR JOURNEY
Begin documenting your wishes, and see how it feels.
Free
- Religious & spiritual preferences
- Physical being (burial or cremation)
- 24/7 access from any device
No credit card required.
EVERYTHING YOU NEED
A complete plan for you. Add plans for family members to build their own, and save.
Who is this plan for?
Most popular$59.99setup
Then $12/year to keep your plan active, starting year 2.
Everything in Free, plus:
- Funeral service preferences
- Location & logistics
- Music selection
- Key people to notify
- Memory photos to upload
- Legacy gift instructions
- Unlimited letters to loved ones
- Legacy story builder
- Funeral budget planner
- Important notes & instructions
Secure checkout.
Add a memorial page,now or later
A simple online page to share the service details, invite guests and gather photos and condolences in one place. Add it whenever you're ready, for a one-time fee of $14.99.
- Service details, invitations and RSVPs
- Photos, stories and condolences from family and friends
- Live stream the service, or host a fully virtual funeral
For a one-time fee of $14.99.
Celebrating the life of Margaret
Saturday, 11:00 AM · Online and in person
38 guests attending
Questions aboutright now
You can start for free and add Full access whenever you're ready. Full access is $59.99 for the first year, then $12 a year to keep your plan.