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BlueButterfly helps you plan ahead with confidence, find guidance when a loss occurs, and create meaningful ways to honor the people you love. Whatever brings you here, we're here to help you take the next step.

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Plan aheadTake your time to make thoughtful decisions in advance. Create and save your wishes so your loved ones have clarity and guidance when they need it most.Start planning
Quickly organize a serviceGet guidance you need to create a meaningful funeral or memorial and take care of important details during an immediate time of need.Get help today
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What matters most to you when planning ahead?

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Make my wishes clear
Reduce stress for my loved ones
Leave a meaningful legacy
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Personal lettersIn your own words
Meaningful giftsFor your loved ones
Photos and memoriesMoments to pass on
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Trusted contacts

Choose who can carry out your wishes.

When the time comes, who do you trust to access your plans?

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Name

John Smith

Email

[email protected]
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Plan Ahead

Document what matters most

At your own pace

  1. Share your wishes

    Answer questions to set your service preferences and list who to notify.

  2. Leave your legacy

    Write personal letters and choose meaningful gifts for your loved ones.

  3. Give peace of mind

    Your family receives a clear plan to carry out your wishes, with optional support from April, our AI assistant, to help them coordinate details when the time comes.

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Would you like Robert’s service to reflect a particular faith or tradition?

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What are Robert’s wishes for his physical remains?

BurialTraditionalA traditional burial in the ground, in a cemetery or natural setting.
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CremationThe body is transformed by fire or water, leaving ashes.
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Burial · estimated costs

Funeral home$2,300 – $3,800

Cemetery plot$1,500 – $3,000

Casket$1,200 – $4,000

Typical total$5,000 – $10,800

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Gentle guidance

  1. Navigate important decisions

    Get gentle, guided support to walk you through what needs to be done.

  2. Understand estimated costs

    Get localized cost estimates to help you make informed decisions.

  3. Coordinate with April

    Use April, our supportive AI assistant, to help organize details and draft arrangements at your own pace.

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Choose a theme for Anthony’s memorial pageMilitary · Air Force
Obituary

“He served with honor and loved without limits.”

Anthony filled every room with warmth and laughter. Loved by family and friends near and far, Anthony will be remembered for a generous spirit and a smile that never faded.

Services

Funeral service (in person)

Saturday, November 14

2:00 PM

Hillside Chapel

AMGT18 RSVPs in the guest book

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Sarah, ChicagoSending love to all of you from Chicago.
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James added a memoryAnthony taught me to fish. I will miss him every summer.
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Laura added 2 photosOur trip to the lake, summer of 1998.

Every memory, kept together.

Memorial Pages

Honor their legacy, beautifully

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  1. Share their story and service details

    Create a welcoming space for the obituary and service information.

  2. Collect RSVPs and condolences

    Easily manage guest attendance, and collect heartfelt messages from loved ones in one place.

  3. Gather memories and photos

    Post your favorite memories and invite family and friends to contribute to a living tribute.

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What would you like to find?

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What feels most meaningful?

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Something they can keep close
Something personalized just for them
Something comforting for their home
A special care package
Something to honor their loved one
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A gift for someone who is grievingSomething comforting for their home

Willow Tree Remembrance, Hand-Painted Angel Figure

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Willow Tree Ever Remember, Hand-Painted Figure

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Willow Tree Messenger, Hand-Painted Figure

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Cardinal Angel Figurine, Remembrance Keepsake

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Memorial Lantern, Sympathy Gift for Loss of a Loved One

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In Memory, Light Remains, White Ceramic Candle

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Handcrafted Memorial Angel Figurine, 6"

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Lavender Eucalyptus Sympathy Candle

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Memorial Gifts

Say what words can't

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    Explore hand-selected comfort items and keepsakes.

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A better way to plan ahead.

Thoughtful tools, intelligent guidance, and greater peace of mind, for you and the people you love.

  • Planning made simple

    An easy, guided way to document your wishes, create your plan, and update it whenever you'd like.

  • Helpful guidance, when you need it

    Get answers, explore your options, and receive personalized assistance with important questions.

  • Confidence in your choices

    Understand your options and feel confident making decisions that reflect what matters to you.

  • Clarity for loved ones

    Make your wishes easier for the people you love to understand and honor.

  • Privacy and control

    Your personal information, your choices. You decide what to share and with whom.